2013年08月22日
Several good love habits
Together for a long time, the partners gradually lack some passion, the communication between each other will become less and less. Gradually began to question the life is your happiness. But happiness does not come of themselves, but to us to create the. Here small make up to share with you the nine daily habits for keeping your feelings Brazil real estate.
1 in the evening to start dating again.
Weekly dinner at your most like restaurant date, to inject some fresh elements to your marriage, such as hiking, cooking class or go to the playground in. Research thinks, fresh is necessary for a happy marriage. Choose something you have never done, when you do all these things, dopamine increases, this is a kind of chemical substances promote mood.
2 smiling good memories about you before
When you and your child said to you the day before, they may be impatient, but this is very useful for the preservation of marriage. Once you experience is a precious wealth, your according to statistics, often recalled marital happiness. Because the memories of the invisible to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife.
3 every day to ask this question: how are you today?
It might sound corny, but if the regular course of official duties every night has disappeared from your life, to try to get it back. Every night this casual chat can improve the relationship between husband and wife, the couple together discuss the very next day positive things will become very happy, and very close.
4 do not collapse because.
If you fight with your partner, try not to panic or immediately went to find a marriage counselor. Anger is a health factors in the marriage life, it means you haven't alienate. But if you often quarrel or by make a hullabaloo about to solve the problem, then your marriage may have a problem.
5 wise argument
In the premise of not destroying marriage to resolve contradictions ultimately boils down to the choice of words and phrases. The study found, quarrel often use "I, we, the expression of our" vocabulary of husband and wife is the positive emotion, and afterwards also won't have too much stress.
6 and your partner.
Go out to fitness and your husband, not only will you be more healthy, your life will be improved. You can encourage each other, still can work together to explore new fitness activities, such as riding a bike or hike. The study found, fitness after the women were more likely to have sex, because health can ease the pressure, increase energy, make you more confident of his own body.
7 to celebrate the success of each other
When your partner is home to tell you he (she) get the boss praised, do you have for him (her) very happy? The study found, share achievements couples more happy. Because this celebration can increase self-confidence, and you become more closely.
8 listen, do not just talk
The man is not always the best listener, listen marriage counselor suggested the following three points: mirror, such as "let me have a look whether you understand, do you think. "Repeat his words; resistance to interrupt the impulse; certainly his views.
9 and his friends.
His colleague, basketball partner, even though his friends online, you may not be very familiar with, but in fact it for your marriage is very important. The more you close and his relatives and friends, your marriage will be more happy, because of this he will think that he is a part of your life.
After doing the above 9, want to let a man truly non you can not, you need to do this thing: in the bedroom lights your fire. This is the most effective to maintain close and make a lasting marriage way. Sometimes it's hard to do, but very useful.
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